A Cat`s Tale - The Story

My name is Ulf Nyback. I live on the Åland Islands between Sweden and Finland. I have set up this homepage to honour the memory of my wife Annukka and to sell her handmade earrings.

Annukka and I met in 2012 and we lived, our first four years, in Espoo, Finland, nearby Helsinki, before we moved to my homeplace, Geta, in the northern part of Åland. Annukka then worked as a kindergarten teacher and I as a special education teacher in secondary school. We got married in 2014.

Annu was always busy doing her jewelry stuff. She had to do something with her hands, she said. Forms and colours was something that inspired her throughout her life. She was a visionary maximalist esthete. Besides the handicraft work she also painted and wrote poetry. We also did some songs together. Annu`s future dream was to start a company of her own to sell her products.

I fully understood her need to create earrings. She grew up in a leastadian family, where it was forbidden to go to movies, listen to rock music, go to rock concerts, watch TV and wear earrings. When we met she already had left the religious movement, and was ready to taste the new path towards freedom.

Annu unfortunately died in 2022, in a rare form of cancer, and never got the chance to see her business dream come true. The summer 2023 I started to build the cabin, that now is the company store of A Cat`s Tale. It stood ready in 2024. In the cabin, which also functions as a gallery for her paintings, I will sell her earrings and my books. In Spring 2025 I also became a certified peer to peer grief educator by David Kessler at grief.com.

I hope that you like Annukka`s handicraft. I surely do. Every pair of her earrings are unique. There is just one of them.

Yours sincerely

Ulf

Annukan runo:

Joku vetää

hatusta kaniinejä

minä ompelen

yhden kerrallaan

pisto kerrallaan

täytän ne ilmalla

minulla on 7 luukkoa

simpukoita

annan ne kaneille

arkku

mummoni arkku (LYYLI)

Löydän mummin arkusta

7 sulkaa

mummi pyytää

etsimään kenelle se luukun

ja selvittämään

mitä ne haluavat

kertoa

Annukkas dikt:

Någon drar

kaniner ur hatten

jag syr

en i taget

ett nålstick i taget

fyller dem med luft

jag har 7 luckor

med musslor

jag ger dem till kaninerna

en kista

min mommos kista (LYYLI)

Jag hittar i mommos kista

7 fjädrar

mommo ber mig

hitta den där luckan åt någon

och ta reda på

vad de vill

berätta

Annukka`s poem

Some people are pulling

rabbits out of the hat

I sew

one by one

one nailstitch at a time

fill them with air

I have 7 gaps

with mussels

I give them to the rabbits

a coffin

my nannies coffin (LYYLI)

I find in nannies coffin

7 feathers

nanny begs me

find that gap for somebody

and find out

what they want to

tell

The cabin

Here is the story of how I built the cabin:

June 2023

Cabin put together, except for the doors.

July 2023

October 2023

November 2023

Dug the holes for the cornerstones.

Had myself a dance floor.

Started with the roof beams.

Tried Annu`s paintings on the walls.

June 2024

Placed all in angel and filled the ground

and the holes with shovel.

Roof done from the inside…

Mango inspecting.

Protection paint to keep the walls in good shape.

Started to insulate the inner ceiling…

First wall all done!

Accidents happens…

Pipelines for electricity.

A friend helped me to finish the roof.

Electricity on its way in.

And spots set up by an electrician.

Did the ground floor and the insulation.

Then it was time for the walls.

Electricity at last!

First painting on the wall.

Painted the outside.

June 2025

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Midsummer Eve and roofing party with

my brother.

…and the outside.

Cabin put up.

…and the walls.

Then it was time for panelling.

…but shame the one who gives up.

Everything clean and tidy.

I nailed mouldings.

Paint It White!

And grey.

More paintings.

Did the stairs.

Light in the darkness.

Annu`s paintings

Welcome to the online gallery:

The paintings are not for sale!

Links:

Our mesothelemia cancer journey:

My music webpage:

Grief Educator Certification: